Sadly, there are all too often when even we ourselves (but it's much more fun to say 'those people') get disgruntled and complaining but what we think should be going on at work, home, church, whatever...
And then there's that moment, when we tell someone (often times not the person who can actually help solve the supposed problem) our opinion. We don't care about anyone else, about anyone else's burdens in how they can to such a decision...if they knew what I knew...then they wouldn't be such an idiot...our line of reasoning goes.

I wonder how much of that would have been different if we decided to jump in and work, work hard together, and begin to understand what they were going through, what sort of decisions they had to weigh to come to the choice that they made. I wonder what could have been if I cared less about how much harder they should have been working when I myself am doing nothing! Oh Opinions, keep them to yourselves. You'll look like a fool. You never help the situation. You become more lonely. And you may just have to eat your words to make it all better!

Proverbs 18:1-2 and Proverbs 18:21