Matthew 5:40 ASV

O: Always be willing to give more than necessary, be more gracious than necessary, not only when the other person is gracious, but when they are combative as well

A: I shouldn't demand my fair shair, or try to only give what is demanded or expected. I should be always looking for ways to bless others, to be more gracious than necessary. When someone is demanding and aggressive, I can not enter into that tone of relationship - I can choose to remain in control of my approach and walk in God's grace by not being shaken by their attitude, but by being generous in my response

P: Lord, please help me to always walk securely in your attitude towards others, and not be swayed by their attitude to me. Help me to always be more gracious than necessary.