When you are fellowshipping with other men, bring your wife and kids, and have the other men bring theirs. If you dont, you will be getting spiritually nourished while your wife stays at home and watches the kids, and then you'll wonder why she doesn't seem to be growing as close to God as you. God wants us to fellowship as families. This way all are provided for. Your kids need to see and hear you fellowshipping and ministering with other believers, otherwise they won't connect what goes on a church with how you actually live your life.

Acts 21:5