sometimes we feel we are better than our leader and we don't wanna obey anyone. but this behavior is not from the Lord. God wants us to relax and see how He works for us. if your leader bother you can wait till God change his personality or change you to see he is good leader or HE may change the leader and replace him with another leader. i believe we can tell our opinion but we have to obey because we won't be asked for the sins of our leaders but vise verse.

Romans 13:1