Proverbs 18:22 AMP, Ephesians 5:33 AMP and 1 Peter 3:2 AMP

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For him to have found that good thing we must obtain that good thing toward him through our respectful submission to him, which is unconditional.

The wife must see that she respects and reverences her husband [that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him; and that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly].- Eph 5:33

For your husband, you are to feel for him all that reverence includes: to respect, defer to, revere him--to honor, esteem, appreciate, prize, and, in the human sense, to adore him, that is, to admire, praise, be devoted to, deeply love, and enjoy your husband.- 1 Peter 3:2