My joy is not determined by what happens to me but what Christ is doing in me and through me. Joy is about working out what God has already worked in. Do everything without complaining or arguing. - Phil. 2:14. When we complain it is a insult to the character of Christ. Christ is not a complainer nor does He argues. Everybody sees their thing as the exception to everything. Happiness is the symptom of circumstance but joy is a product of perspective. God is still good and I will be grateful.

Philippians 2:12-14