Sex in the Marriage Bed

The worlds idea of sex is all about getting it. It's looked at like a consumer good. The act takes precedence of the person. In the Word tells us that it is the upmost way to serve your spouse. Sex is the wedding gift from God. It is not a not dirty act, in marriage. When you get marriage you are saying I'm not living to please myself to please her. It is better to give than get. It is essential to a marriage. Sex is pleasure, sporting (in the Greek means causing great pleasure), erotic, sensual, passionate, sizzling. It is a blessing for married couples only.

The married bed is never defiled, whoremongers and adulteress, are condemned. To avoid fornication, get married. Fornication is nothing but selfish as will be judged.

The love of God is never selfish, the love to our spouse is never for our pleasure. It is about her pleasure. There is never a frigid or cold women, there is only a bumbling or stumbling man. It's because men are objective thinkers. We do not take part in the pre-game. We need to this, we need to invest in the time, most men expect a very small investment and a late return. Women should not with hold sex from the man because that is prostituting the marital sex.

Biggest problems:
1. Selfishness (it's about serving and pleasing them)
2. Different levels of sexual drive (compromise is a must, one must accept less and the other must accept more)
3. Differences on opinion birth control (birth control is not wrong. As long as the couple agrees on it)

Created about 1 year ago