Overcoming Judgments & Christians that Judge

Most of us have come through trying times in life. I've learned if you somewhere deep inside your heart want God's vision for your life, you will go through hell to refine you and to make you Christ like - which is the goal of His life for you at the end.

How often have you been judged by others - specially those that are proclaimed Christians, or ministers? I know I have alot. It hurts, it digs deep into you and it is so so easy to be bitter, unforgiving towards these people. It is also very easy to grow very untrusting of people in general which will put you in a corner, dark corner with no one in your life, Satan's plan of attack for you by the way.

Let me explain this to you...  You are so unique, So different, no one in this world - past, present or future will even have your DNA.  Think about that for a second.  God created you for a purpose and with a plan and for this timeline as well.  SO, knowing this is a biblical truth - we all are on a road to be like Christ and fulfill our first MAIN purpose in being, totally taken, in love with and in full relationship with the Father.  Spreading the word is second to this and I've heard it taught so wrong so many times... Your #1 reason in being is perfect unity and connection to the father.  Remember Adam was created for this purpose, that hasn't changed.  So building on these 2 truths, We are all on a training ground.  Every moment in life is a chance to grow and be trained to be closer, deeper and gain more authority over things in our life.  SO - with that truth now out there - here it is:  Those that judge you, really are judging our Father in how he is allowing you to be trained.  You are unique - they have no clue of the road you're on, our Father however does.  Only he knows what it will take to break, remold and make you into a picture image of our brother and King, Jesus.  So now ask yourself this question, do they even have any right judging me - and secondly does it even matter much any more in light of spending time in the Fathers arms and love right now?  Are you willing to let their trap set for you stop you from being in the Fathers arms?

I have gone through alot of this and just getting to a point in my life of learning, I'm not in the wrong, they are. You need to realize when someone judges you, they are at fault, NOT YOU! The word says to NOT repay evil for evil and wrong doing for another wrong done to you. You are called to be a peace maker, no matter what they do to you. I will admit upfront that is VERY hard! BUT what do you want, ask yourself this question right now... Honestly What do you want in this life? To be right or wrong, get even or get a deeper level of love from our Father? Their wrong doing is a trap for you and yes it tends to most the time come from people we have dealings with and have helped in the past in ministries or family. You are not accountable for their words, heart and such - but you are yours.

How many times have you judged people in the past, either harshly or even in your own mind, gently? Think about it. You can walk in the knowledge of God OR walk with God, you can't have it both ways. I prefer the walk with God, even though it can be a harder road, but so much more blessed. Remember the word also says that Knowledge puffs up - gives you a big head, makes it easier for you to Judge others and think as though in your heart your better than others. Remember we are all created by our father and all given the breath of life - the same breath and same spirit given to me is in each of you. Mmm.. Think about as you just walked in a knowledge of God, or just tried making life work just on your own with God on the sidelines, MOST Christians and Pastor's Do this, make no mistake about it, words spoken doesn't make a person whole with God. When you Judged someone - did you notice things just get worse in life even though we have high hopes of God breaking through? This is because that same word we love to hear - those that judge us will be judged, but when it comes to us - we think we are not held to that, go figure.

Remember how it felt as you slide downward away from God? How life just wouldn't work out even on best days and break through's still the fruit wouldn't last. Anything done in our own strength will NOT last remember. To walk WITH GOD is the main answer here. Judgement's you can see more clearly are just the person spitting words out there to hurt you with because they are seeing GOD in you at a level they wished they could have him - so they put you down with things they see you're going through based from stuff in their own hearts that are not healed and they are not going through. Remember before I said your not held accountable for their heart - but YOURS. It is YOUR Goal and purpose in life to clean your heart up - not their's. They will try and hinder and stop that at times by their actions, judgments, hurtful words...

Also remember how it felt when you were slipping downwards away from God - they are feeling this daily. A point of Prayer now maybe uh? I TOTALLY love this scripture and the way the message bible puts it.

"In kindness he takes us firmly by the hand and leads us into a radical life-change." Romans 2:4

WOW - Isn't that your desire? It says HE takes us - not the others that speak judgments and curses over us. What an awesome promise and truth - not he will but he IS already RIGHT NOW!!! Also remember this message shortly below the one above... "Every refusal and avoidance of God adds fuel to the fire." Wow - NOW - stop and look at your life - when was the last time you felt you needed to read the word but didn't... How about you spoke curses or judgements back over the other person out of hurt, wow... Really, this is huge. You are not here for them, clearly - you are here for a purpose, goal and vision that only Father has and is your JOB to find out about and dig out the bad stuff in your heart and grow deeper than ever before. It doesn't matter if it is deeper than the person speaking junk over you or not, they just don't matter when it comes to you and our fathers time together and growing. His love over you and the fact he can totally wrap you up in his love and arms heals so much if you will see the way God does in these Scriptures.

Alot of times people will kick you with words because they see or sense the call of God in your life and/or they feel the presence of God in your life - specially other Christians - and they get jealous because they are unwilling to follow God for themselves so they grow old and bitter, even at a young age. We all hunger for a love that will not hurt us and only Father has this ONLY Him. Vow in your heart now to fix this... I have seen and heard of major healings in body and mind and money take place when this is fixed, be the one that grows and doesn't just talk about it...

The word says that the world looks for the sons (and daughters) of God, it is waiting for us to stand up... Are you one that will? Judgements are traps to stop you, hurt you, and remember they are spiritual issues. Their words and thoughts of you honestly has no control over your future unless you let them have authority in your life - your call... Enjoy... Al

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